People of the Clock…
There is something we all hope for - happily ever after, but truly….There is no happily ever after. And why, because people are unpredictable and ‘happily ever after’ are never-changing….People are all different, people all change their minds and people all evolve as individuals. So how can you be guaranteed of a happily ever after if life is ever-changing…? You can't. You have to kind of make do with what you are given at any moment in time and make the best of that moment. You have to be present with where you are at and not contemplate yesterday or tomorrow, because you will end up missing out on now.
Now is truly what matters is it not? Now is what you should be focusing on, else with worrying about tomorrow and yesterday, you miss out on, well life….
In order to make the best of what you have I feel you need to be present, present at that moment in time. Where you are not thinking about yesterday or tomorrow, but where you are making note of everything you are feeling at that moment, right there and then.
We tend to lose out on so many experiences due to pre-empting about tomorrow or regretting yesterday. Many say they don't have any regrets, but really now – if you think about what you should have done yesterday and that you should have done it differently – that would qualify as a regret.
Nothing is suppose to be simple, but if you focus on now instead of the other, then it is simple. Simplicity is by de-cluttering and that is what you do when you mind is not hovering on ‘what if’ and ‘when’? By really being present you are focusing on just that.
Misconceptions are created by being misinformed due to lack of experience and too much TV…Soapies for example – POISON I tell you….Yes, we all know it’s not real and we all know its over dramatized, however watch it enough and you will feel the want that the woman has waiting on the pier as her lover arrives, or feel the intensity of the first kiss over a candle lit dinner in a cabin with no electricity due to the everlasting storms they have.
That is negative manipulation dressed as dreams….Well eventually they are anyway…Anyone who watches long enough gets hooked and that is that; even men.
Being present is being honest with not only yourself but being true to others as well. What is the point of listening to someone attentively one moment and the next you are going through your shopping list for later the day. Focus and listen, absorb and dissolve. Take in what is given to you and appreciate the sharing between some and others.
Here is being present and focusing on now….
You know you love me, present and all
xoxo
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