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So, i officially have the net at home and wow what a difference it has made...

I am now able to blog from home and bed, without having to use my Blackberry. By the by - i have started another blog. Must note though that its not lighthearted like this blog. Its more relevant to my pink galaxy piece... He he he...

So yeah - i will be blogging more often and spreading my wings a little more. How exciting is that...

Oh and the addie to the other blog is http://www.hertia9.wordpress.com/

Enjoy - u know u love me the more i write...

xoxo

Evolution based on Experience

Peeps of the planetary composition of this wonderful galaxy (one of many)...

Yes, my brain has worked overtime  and in a completion i would like to call, 'light switch theory'. Now - first and foremost, the 'LST' is basically when something in your psyche is enveloped by the same information over and over, but sealed with the correct fragment of information that makes the sense it needed to make from the first moment of gestation. 

Now, very recently i have had a few 'LST' moments, but what makes this so magnificent is the fact that the moments have not seized, if anything i am having one 'LST' moment after the next which i think is awesome in the highest level of awesomeness :-)

Okay - so gene pools are vitally important and definitely something to take into consideration upon conception, reason being (if you are 'mating' for fun, this is irrelevant, but in the interim of it being for reproductive reasons please take note), anyway...so you need to seriously look at the gene pool you plan on playing in. If the composition is not of the highest quality the end result will be dismally bland. 

Apart from the gene pool, you also have your blue print which is based on many many different things...ancestors, gene pool, astrology, etc. Your blue print can however be altered due to future choices, environment, broken circles; in other words - evolution.

The importance of evolution is as important as breathing. If you do not evolve, your life goals will seldom be reached. Your full potential will not be attained and you will only accomplish a drop in the ocean of what you can. 

Growing into who  you are from who you were is part of the evolution process. Knowing where the golden line of emotion is so that you can determine when to step over it and when not... Training yourself to selectively choose what you want to be apart of and what you don't want to be apart of.

Looking in that mirror and truly being content with what you see...Why would that be so important you might think, well its simple...If you are happy with what you see in that mirror, you will not look for approval, recognition or any other form of negative manipulation - cause evidentially that is what it is...Manipulation in all walks of life is needed, however you need to know how to maintain and steer that manipulation. Negative manipulation is self-destructive and won't get you to evolve, but rather consume you with the exact opposite.

Growth is vital. Evolution is vital. Positive manipulation is vital. 

Such a huge topic that i surely have to touch on again. Currently my mind is too full of different theories and this might not make any sense...But to me, right now, it does and that is what matters...

Hope you all have many 'LST' moments...

You know you love the words i use...xoxo

Hallmark Card...

Mmmmm - People of the Palace.... So i have been thinking, yet again - he he he...

You know those fairy tale loves that you only see in movies and on the cover of a Hallmark card??? Well i have a theory and my theory is this....

It does exist, else it would not be the subject of movies or on the cover of a Hallmark card...The ideas and thoughts and plots and plans had to come from somewhere...

Chivalry is not dead and Romance is indeed alive and kicking, however - with saying that, as chemistry brings people together....well i reckon it works the same way for Mr Chivalry and Ms Romance - the chemistry and combination of the possible love has to be right for those factors as well. 

I mean yes at times you find a great combination and all goes well and then suddenly, for no real logical reason, things fall to pieces - well the combinations weren't all correct...

Love exists... Flowers might not be welcomed by a woman because its not the right guy giving it to her - with saying that, for some woman, when they do get all their hearts desire (material wise as an example), then they are no longer interested, why? Not because the challenge is over, but rather because the combination is not right...The wrong man is bringing the wrong woman flowers...I mean think about it - Happily in love and being spoilt rotten, come now - u telling me if the combination is right, that you would not welcome that...Whateva!!!

A guy might be head over heels with a wonderful lady, but then by the time day two kicks in, then he has lost interest...Its not that she did something or that he did, its just the wrong combination...(Or he is a player only in it for the sex and due to you saying no, now he is no longer interested - sad that you actually get that...But that is another post on its own - he he he).

Everything in this world is based on energy and compatibilities of structures to be formed by different elements - now really, did we honestly think that love would be different...Love is just a word that was made up by some very important person with loads of money and then patented in the world dictionary, but really - we all feel it, some in different ways to other, but we still all feel it...So...

Feel it, try it and combine it - you will be surprised with the strange concoctions you come up now that you know you throwing a bit of this in here and a dash of that over there...

He he he - enjoy Home EC 101...

U know u want to be loved xoxo

Ps. I feel the need to elaborate on this subject, trust me i will - Mwah mwah mwah...

Its My PARTY and I Will Choose as I Want to!!!

Good morning people of the palace and what a stunning day in Cape Town it is...

The Vuvuzelas r out and the peeps of the shiny pillars r ready 2 take on the foreigners with all their might...

Well, i have a World Cup of my own 2 enduldge in and i wuld like 2 stress how things will b from tomorrow (my b-day) onwards...

1. If u do not bring anything positive & loving 2 my life, excuse ureself from it!
2. If u feel the need 2 harm me or undermine me in anyway, please excuse ureself!
3. If ure intentions r not pure and coming from a gud place, please excuse ureself!

After much thought and filtering through what i call my Grey Matter it has come 2 my attention that their r some people who do the following -

• Take me 4 granted
• Use me 4 their own selfish reasons
• Walk over me 2 make them feel better about their lives
• Undermine my intelligence purely coz I'm made of Candy floss
• Hurt me over and over and over (i don't really give a shit that its not intentional at times, u still doing it.....)

So yeah - this is a clean slate...

I have had enuf of being treated the way others feel like treating me, which happens 2 not b the way they want 2 b treated by others...

Please do note however that this is not with reference to all in my life - u know who u r...

So, as it is my b-day tomorrow i wuld suggest the following - if u can't do me proud and justly, get packing and get out of my life - thank you very much!!!

I plan on growing more towards the sun and flowering in2 an even better attribute to those who deserve me in their lives...

I know who i am and to have others get me to question myself is just wrong - 'Be gone with you!!!'

I am the mother f'n princess whether u like it or not!

U know u will luv me if u really do
xoxo

Its All But a Game

Evening People of the Palace

Tonight I have been thinking, yet again and yes its dangerous,
I know, but life is so much like a game.

The problem, amongst a few, is the fact that we get no instructions and we get no rule book! U r put out on2 the field and told 2 win, that's it!

So u have the field, which I'm thinking is the immediate areas u find yourself in-school, work, parties, wherever...

Then u get the people on ure team and the people on the offending team.
Confusion sets in, y? Simple, u c, u don't know who is on whose team until closer 2 the end of the game or towards a good half or more of the playin time...

The fact that the opposing team seems 2 b under the radar is what makes the game even more daring and trying. U don't know who 2 trust, who 2 side with and who 2 depend on. At times u depend on the wrong player and BAM u get hit in the nuts!

Then its back to the drawing board and then u try yet again, only for BAM to get hit in the nuts again. When u score, all seems worth it, but with all gr8 games there is very little on the scoreboard but so much effort in the game.

Screw that...I don't wanna play anymore. Ill resort 2 some one on one indoors where I stay warm, safe and have more control. As soon as u venture out into the playing field u r more likely for that BAM to knock ure wind out than for the commentator 2 go 'and she scores!'

Game over? Yes please...

U know I love me xoxo

We were there 2!!!???

Afternoon people of the palace...

So something dawned on me over this awesome past w-end...

Remember those days u wuld go 2 party at some club for the first time - u just got ure ID and were officially legal to go there now...The dodgy clubs u kept 4 when u did not have the ID, but now u had the little green book and proudly carried it with u!! (OK well i didn't, but some peeps did, so anyway)....

Now u get to go to a proper club, the proper way AND NO ONE CAN THROW YOU OUT!!!! You walk in, u nervous and making sure u balancing correctly on ure very high heels, glimpse in2 the door u pass to see if ure hair is still in place...You hear the music, feel the beat, smell the smoke (or the scent of some yummy man passing you by :-)) and then you enter the room where all the other peeps are...The bar is full, people are laughing and dancing and u seem 2 fit in...You start 2 have loads of fun and dance and shake ure tiny little tight ass and then, then u c those woman, yes i said woman, sitting at the bar, or table or on the dance floor - 'My Gosh, how old are they and what are they doing here?'

The woman spot you and immediately discuss the scenario 'If my daughter comes here in a little tiny dress like that, i will walk in here with my curlers and fokken slippers and drag her out by her hair.' 'Can you believe how short that dress is' 'How is that little chicky check me out, does she know i am a mother.?' He he he - sounds familiar - question is which side sounds most familiar and the scary part is, u gonna end up on both ends, whether you want 2 or not...

:-) - strange how the spectrum of life shifts every so often and then subtly reminds you where you actually fit in... :-)

'Little teeny boppers should be home at that time of the night' or 'Why are there so many old people here?' - He he he.... (Old i will have you know, is not even 30 yet according to the boppers...)

U know u luv me xoxo

Look at that amazing view!

Morning people of the palace... :-).

How strange is it that its the small things we tend 2 disregard, especially when life
seems 2 b handing u Tequila and not lemons! As soon as things seemingly goes well
, we tend 2 lose sight of those little things that truly make us smile...

Mmmmm...
A stunning morning with the birds singing.
A sneeze...or two, or three, or four (and yes I do believe the more u have, the more u smile...
for factful reasons of course).
A smile from some hunky dude in the traffic, yes u in the new Golf GTI, u know who u r!
Finding the perfect outfit for the day that says 'I am here world and feel as good as I look,
so pass me more Tequila!'
A really good hairday!
Finding that hidden R100 note in the jacket pocket of the jacket u have not worn since last winter.
A really good meal!
Or, a sweet message from a sweet someone letting u know they r thinking of u!
Oe oe oe oe, or when...and moving swiftly along. Lol...

We get so caught up in the daily duties of the day. Get so into doing what we have to
and what we r programmed 2 do, that we skip breakfast or looking at the view as we drive 2 work.
Stop! And look. Stop! And listen. Feel the sunlight, smell the fumes of the traffic, he he he,
kiddin, smell the fresh air (if u can find some) and enjoy the tiny things, that will make
the big things seem huge!

No one can be happy and positive all the time, not even Kirstie Alley,
but if u note the small things u r bound 2 smile more,
which uses less muscles than frowning, so less wrinkles! He he he!

Have a super day all and make the best of it all!

U know u luv me xoxo

Addicted to Abuse...

So if u r raised ure early years of ure life 2 be okay with people talking down to u, with being mistreated and not standing up and staying something, well then as an adult that is what u will end up doing, until - well until u start 2 realise that what is happening is not working (something will feel off par and eventually), he he he, well eventually u will manage to say enuf! You will end up standing up for yourself, not necessarily in a negative or violent way, but most definitely in a benificial way to you as an individual - genoeg is mos genoeg!!!

Being a parent u have such a huge responsibility to your offspring - a handbook and exam should be installed - parenting is dangerous - if you end up installing the abuse, manipulation and unjust, well can you only imagine the adults emerging from that?

Sometime parents don't even realise what they are doing due to the fact that they were reared the same way by their parents - so a vicious circle is just repeated over and over and over and over and over...It is for the few that realise the craziness to put a stop to that behaviour, to not install it into the next generation.

Being mistreated and abused and walked over causes people to be weak and not succeed to the best of their ability. It stunts the growth of a flower dying to bloom!!! Cruelty at its best...

I remember this girl i knew that would feel terrible if she saw someone upset or angry - she would immediately think that she had done something wrong. She would try to be overly nice and accommodating to that person and eventually would ask 'but what have i done', only for that person to frown and then note, but it had nothing to do with her...The burden she carried with her was huge and ate away at her spirit daily...

This was all due to her mothers behaviour around her. Her mother would have a bad day and be in a terrible mood and then resort to mistreated her. Saying horrible things to her, breaking her character down, treated her like a slave that could just not work hard or good enuf and then when she would ask her mother, 'please, what have i done?' well - she wouldn't even answer her, making her daughter feel that she had done something wrong and enduring every second wondering and fearing what would be next...

So i think if you feel at any time that something someone does as whatever point makes u feel funny and not in a good way, that u need to stand the 'peter pan' up and say so! Don't take it. No one owns you. No one dictates to you or lives your live....You owe no one nothing!!! (How is that for terrible English)...

Have your say and make your stand - u don't have to be a victim if you listen to your soul!

You know you love me - xoxo

Intellect, but lack of common sense

Good day people of the Palace....

There r times when i flabbergast myself 2 all hearts content with the most intriguing little words that erupt from my mouth...

The idea of this BLOG is 2 note my thoughts, amongst which u r sure 2 find sum form of guidance, humour or just plain gud reading...I have been known 2 have my moments of stardom amongst the intellectual beings on this earth, but i have also been known 2 attract & entertain, the not so bright little Xmas lights...Here i wuld like 2 share those moments with u.
Pls note though that sum might find sum posts offensive, if that is the case, please luk 4 the little cross on the right hand corner of ure screen & click it!!!!
Ure views r welcomed...
Other than that, 4 those that have enjoyed Dorey's moments in the past, enjoy the moments 2 come - he he he...
U know u luv me (yes its patented by GG, but hey, it's my BLOG - deal with it) xoxo