Addicted to Abuse...

So if u r raised ure early years of ure life 2 be okay with people talking down to u, with being mistreated and not standing up and staying something, well then as an adult that is what u will end up doing, until - well until u start 2 realise that what is happening is not working (something will feel off par and eventually), he he he, well eventually u will manage to say enuf! You will end up standing up for yourself, not necessarily in a negative or violent way, but most definitely in a benificial way to you as an individual - genoeg is mos genoeg!!!

Being a parent u have such a huge responsibility to your offspring - a handbook and exam should be installed - parenting is dangerous - if you end up installing the abuse, manipulation and unjust, well can you only imagine the adults emerging from that?

Sometime parents don't even realise what they are doing due to the fact that they were reared the same way by their parents - so a vicious circle is just repeated over and over and over and over and over...It is for the few that realise the craziness to put a stop to that behaviour, to not install it into the next generation.

Being mistreated and abused and walked over causes people to be weak and not succeed to the best of their ability. It stunts the growth of a flower dying to bloom!!! Cruelty at its best...

I remember this girl i knew that would feel terrible if she saw someone upset or angry - she would immediately think that she had done something wrong. She would try to be overly nice and accommodating to that person and eventually would ask 'but what have i done', only for that person to frown and then note, but it had nothing to do with her...The burden she carried with her was huge and ate away at her spirit daily...

This was all due to her mothers behaviour around her. Her mother would have a bad day and be in a terrible mood and then resort to mistreated her. Saying horrible things to her, breaking her character down, treated her like a slave that could just not work hard or good enuf and then when she would ask her mother, 'please, what have i done?' well - she wouldn't even answer her, making her daughter feel that she had done something wrong and enduring every second wondering and fearing what would be next...

So i think if you feel at any time that something someone does as whatever point makes u feel funny and not in a good way, that u need to stand the 'peter pan' up and say so! Don't take it. No one owns you. No one dictates to you or lives your live....You owe no one nothing!!! (How is that for terrible English)...

Have your say and make your stand - u don't have to be a victim if you listen to your soul!

You know you love me - xoxo